Claim Your Corner: Creating a Space That’s Just for You
….because you deserve it! As moms, we’re wired to put others first. From managing school drop-offs and grocery runs to working full-time jobs and juggling endless responsibilities at home—it’s easy to lose ourselves in the hustle. But here’s a truth we don’t hear often enough: you can’t keep pouring from an empty cup.
This Mother’s Day, I want to gently challenge that narrative. What if you gave yourself permission to carve out a little space—just for you? Not for laundry. Not for the family. Not for functionality. Simply a corner, a nook, or a moment that’s completely yours. Not because it’s selfish—but because it’s necessary.
Why You Deserve a Space That’s Yours
Creating a personal space in your home isn’t about extravagance. It’s about honouring your identity outside of motherhood and responsibilities. It’s about showing up for yourself the way you show up for everyone else.
When you have even a small place that brings you peace, it supports your mental clarity, calms your nervous system, and gives you space to breathe. And from that grounded place, you can actually show up better for the people you love.
Source: Wildflower Home
No Extra Room? No Problem.
Let’s be real—most of us don’t have the luxury of a spare room waiting to be transformed. But that doesn’t mean you can’t claim your corner. It might look like:
A cozy reading chair in your bedroom with a small side table for your tea and current read
A quiet nook near a window filled with your favourite plants and soft lighting
A tucked-away desk for journaling, crafting, or catching your breath between meetings
A bath tray and candle setup that transforms your bathroom into a spa—even for just 20 minutes
The point isn’t square footage—it’s intention. When you make space for yourself in your own home, you’re declaring that your needs matter too.
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Inspiration to Spark Your Own "Just for Me" Space
Everyone’s version of “retreat” looks different—and that’s the beauty of it. Here are a few ideas to help you dream something up:
The Green Corner: A sunlit area filled with plants, natural textures, and a soft chair. Great for grounding and early morning rituals.
The Creative Nook: A small cart or cabinet with your craft supplies, art tools, or writing journals. Creativity isn’t just a hobby—it’s healing.
The Cozy Retreat: A plush chair, warm throw blanket, a diffuser, and a stack of books. Your space to unplug and recharge.
The Bath Sanctuary: Spa-like scents, mood lighting, and soothing music turn your nightly bath into an act of restoration.
And if you do have the space to create something more removed—a “she shed,” a converted sunroom, or a peaceful home office—go all in. You deserve it.
Source: Quiet Minimal
Design It with Intention
You don’t need to renovate your entire house to make a space feel sacred. A few thoughtful touches go a long way:
Choose a calming or energizing colour that reflects you
Layer in soft textures—pillows, rugs, throws—to invite comfort
Add meaningful elements: a framed photo, a quote that grounds you, your favourite scent
Use baskets, trays, or cabinets to keep it organized and easy to maintain
The key is to make it feel like your little sanctuary—where you can exhale and just be.
The Real Gift? A Happier, Healthier You
Taking time for yourself doesn’t take away from your family—it gives them a stronger, more grounded version of you. When you create even the smallest retreat within your home, you’re not only tending to your mental health, you're setting an example of what self-respect and balance can look like.
So this Mother’s Day, don’t just wait for someone to hand you flowers. Give yourself the gift of space—physically, mentally, and emotionally.
Because you deserve to feel held, inspired, and at home in your own home too.
